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From: "Ralph Taylor" <>
Subject: Re: [ADVANRES] contacting newly discovered cousins
Date: Thu, 2 Apr 2009 14:55:53 -0600
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Re: "My dilemma is whether or not I should pursue this branch, and if I do
what means should I use."

We can't tell you whether you should pursue this branch or not; it's up to
you. But, it seems you're interested in doing so.

I agree with Melissa, write letters & mail them; paper is more tangible and
can be passed to the interested. Take care with the letters; they will be
your first impression.

Make them short, one page, so they'll get read. Introduce yourself and your
goal of making a family history for future generations. Explain that your
interest is not commercial and you want no money from them at any time.
Include or attach a family history tidbit that might pique interest. Say
that sharing information is common among genealogists. Close with a specific
requested action on the recipeint's part -- make it simple for them to
respond. Include your phone number, e-mail, and postal address.

I would NOT delete the older folks from your list. They may have the most
valuable information.

They may still not respond. Don't take non-response as a sign of total
disinterest. (It occurs to me that your phone message may have got lost in
translation.) Wait a while and try again, with a little different approach.

-rt_/)


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