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From: Sunni <>
Subject: Dollarhide's rules for Genealogists
Date: Mon, 07 Feb 2000 17:23:06 -0800

Treat the brothers and sisters of your ancestor as equals…even if
some of them were in jail.

2. Death certificates are rarely filled in by the person who died.

3. When visiting a funeral home, wear old clothes, no make-up, and
look like you have about a week to live…the funeral director will give
you anything you ask for if he thinks you may be a customer soon.

4. The cemetery where your ancestor was buried does not have perpetual
care, has no office, is accessible only by a muddy road, has snakes,
tall grass, and lots of bugs. . . and many of the old gravestones are
in broken pieces, stacked in a corner under a pile of dirt.

5. A Social Security form SS-5 is better than a birth certificate
because few people had anything to do with the information on their
own birth certificate.

6. The application for a death certificate you want insists that you
provide the maiden name of the deceased's mother…which is exactly what
you don't know and is the reason you are trying to get the death
certificate in the first place.

7. If you call Social Security and ask where to write for a birth
certificate, tell them it is for yourself…they won't help you if you
say you want one for your great-great-great-great-great-great
grandfather who died in 1642.

8. When you contact the state vital statistics office in your home
state and ask if they are "online," and they respond, "on what?," you
may have a problem.

9. A census record showing all twelve children in a family proves only
that your ancestors did not believe in birth control.

10. Work from the known to the unknown. In other words, just because
your name is Washington doesn't mean you are related to George.

11. With any luck, some of the people in your family could read and
write . . . and may have left something written about themselves.

12. It ain't history until it's written down. (See #19)

13. A genealogist needs to be a detective. Just gimme da facts Ma'am.

14. Always interview brothers and sisters together in the same room.
Since they can't agree on anything about the family tree, it makes for
great fun to see who throws the first punch.

15. The genealogy book you just found out about went out of print last
week.

16. A good genealogical event is learning that your parents were
really married.

17. Finding the place a person lived may lead to finding that person's
arrest record.

18. It's really quite simple. First, you start with yourself, then
your parents, then your grandparents. . . then you QUIT. . . and start
teaching classes in genealogy.

19. If it's not written down, it ain't history yet. (See #12)

20. In spite of MTV, computer games, or skate boards, there is always
a chance that your grandchildren will learn how to read someday.

21. "To understand the living, you have to commune with the dead, but
don't commune with the dead so long that you forget that you are
living!" (From Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil by John
Berendt.)

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