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From: "Sandra" <>
Subject: RE: [CASonoma] info was --> obit Gary SNOW Sonoma 1981
Date: Mon, 9 Aug 2004 17:49:40 -0700
In-Reply-To: <000901c47d1b$fad02330$21d01518@modified>
So sorry, NOTHING showed up in the Sonoma Press Democrat or the Sonoma Index
Tribune and I searched well beyond my normal range. Perhaps a dc would be
the best for you. Sandra
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Subject: Re: [CASonoma] info was --> obit Gary SNOW Sonoma 1981
All very helpful information. I did not know the county where he was born,
having a devil of a time tracking that one down, thank you. I can finally
get his birth certificate, wow. The possible father that I found was through
the SSDI, his ss# 548-26-8111, born in 1927. I 've been doing this for 20
years, though, and now I'm not sure I understand the notations I kept. There
is a note after his info that just says cal-tex 75208. I don't have any
mention of counties, or even a state for birth and death.
I don't mean to be long winded, but it is hard for me to do this with out
letting you know how much this helps. I am thirty years old, and I have
never seen the man that was my father. My husband and I just had a daughter
in March, and the part of me that doesn't know my dad kills me every time I
look at my child. I have been looking for him since I was 10 years old, when
I found out that my step-father was not my real father. In the last five
years any and all direct contacts to Gary have either died or disappeared.
I've had to start completely from scratch, not easy after all that time.
Please send my great appreciation along to Lauren as well. I hope to hear
from you again.
Thank you so very much,
Jennifer Jahrsdoerfer
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Sent: Friday, August 06, 2004 7:34 PM
Subject: RE: [CASonoma] info was --> obit Gary SNOW Sonoma 1981
> Lauren,
> No, I didn't modify the email address for Jennifer -
> mailto: was the address I was contacted by.
> I will forward this to her as well.
> If I find an obituary I will post that to the list.
> Sandra
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: [mailto:]
> Sent: Tuesday, August 03, 2004 10:25 AM
> To:
> Subject: Re: [CASonoma] info was --> obit Gary SNOW Sonoma 1981
>
>
> Being as Sandra apparently altered Jennifer's email address and I do
> not find her messages in either the CASonoma list archives, nor on the
> CASonoma board, I presume this was a message sent privately to Sandra.
> I am replying on list in the hope that Jennifer ends up with a copy of the
> replies,
> inclusive of the address of the sender.
>
> I checked the CADI and found:
> SNOW, GARY STUART
> DOB 1956 12 28
> Mother's maiden name WILSON
> Sex MALE
> Place of birth CA
> Place of Death SONOMA
> Date of Death 1981 02 01
> SS#569157341
> age at death: 24
>
> You should be able to order a death certificate and it should have his
> mother's
> full maiden name and place of birth, as well as his father's full name,
> place of
> birth. It should also say if Gary ever served in the military and which
> branch.
>
> AND it should list the name of the mortuary and, I believe, place of
burial.
> The funeral home and the cemetery should also have records of some sort.
>
> I note he would have been 18 during 1975. It is possible he may have been
> drafted.
> I believe the draft was still in effect at that time. There may be either
> military or
> draft board records for him. Males aged 18 had to register for the draft.
>
> You can also order his Social Security Application which should also have
> the
> name and origins of his parents.
>
> I checked the SSDI and it lists:
> Name
> GARY SNOW
>
> Birth 28 Dec 1956
> Death Feb 1981
> Last Residence 94901 (San Rafael, Marin, CA)
> Last Benefit 94952 (Petaluma, Sonoma, CA) --- this could indicate
> residence of next of kin
> SSN 569-15-7341
> Issued California
>
> If he died an "unnatural" death, the Coroner's office will have performed
an
> autopsy.
> They will have minimal records of genealogical value, but should have
"next
> of kin"
> and the funeral home.
>
> I checked the CA Birth records and found:
>
> SNOW GARY S 1956 12 28 WILSON MALE SANTA CLARA
>
> You should also be able to order a birth certificate from Santa Clara
County
> or via Sacramento. The County is generally quicker to fulfill requests
than
> the state -- which can take 6 mos to fulfill orders. It should have his
> mother's
> full maiden name and place of birth, as well as his father's full name,
> place of
> birth and occupation.
>
> I am including the others, for information purposes. You will note there
is
> not a
> Gaylon Snow born in California during the appropriate time period to be
> father to
> Gary [yes, I checked for "Galen" as well]:
>
> SNOW GARRY S 1976 02 06 BUHLER MALE SACRAMENTO
> SNOW GARTH N 1962 11 19 PETERS MALE LOS ANGELES
> SNOW GARY 1945 03 15 BAILEY MALE STANISLAUS
> SNOW GARY A 1959 09 04 PETERS MALE VENTURA
> SNOW GARY CLARK 1951 11 30 BAKER MALE SHASTA
> SNOW GARY D 1963 01 19 CRIBBS MALE LOS ANGELES
> SNOW GARY D 1977 06 26 TEERINK MALE SACRAMENTO
> SNOW GARY E 1956 07 07 CANBY MALE SANTA BARBARA
> SNOW GARY E 1963 05 06 HOUSE MALE LOS ANGELES
> SNOW GARY EUGENE 1955 05 31 STALLBERG MALE CONTRA COSTA
> SNOW GARY EVAN 1941 09 22 DANIELSEN MALE ALAMEDA
> SNOW GARY L 1958 03 19 PHILLIPS MALE LOS ANGELES
> SNOW GARY L 1968 12 11 TYLER MALE SANTA CLARA
> SNOW GARY L 1969 11 21 WILSON MALE TULARE
> SNOW GARY LEE 1938 01 29 RANDALL MALE LOS ANGELES
> SNOW GARY LYNN 1941 05 23 POWELL MALE LOS ANGELES
> SNOW GARY PAUL 1950 11 10 BARRY MALE KERN
> SNOW GARY R 1959 04 13 LAYMAN MALE SANTA CLARA
> SNOW GARY S 1956 12 28 WILSON MALE SANTA CLARA
> SNOW GARY S 1966 05 08 OLIVE MALE SAN BERNARDINO
> SNOW GARY SAMUEL 1946 07 05 CROSS MALE TULARE
> SNOW GAVIN 1984 12 04 PHILIPS MALE LOS ANGELES
> SNOW GAY ATRICE 1936 08 21 BROWN FEMALE SAN FRANCISCO
> SNOW GAYLE L 1961 06 25 NUNES FEMALE SHASTA
> SNOW GAYLE RAE 1953 03 16 HUNT FEMALE KERN
> SNOW GAYLON D 1963 08 14 SIEBLER MALE SAN JOAQUIN
> SNOW GAYLON RAY 1952 09 06 MCCLAIN MALE SAN JOAQUIN
>
> I also checked California Marriage records from 1949-1957 and did not find
> one single Snow/Wilson marriage. If they were married, either they were
not
> married in California, or their marriage was left out of the index, or it
> predates
> the records available to me.
>
> It is common for Californians to go to Nevada to get married. However, I
> have
> just learned, much to my surprise, that *all* Nevada marriage records are
> sealed.
> Much to my chagrin, also, as I was first married in Nevada and so was my
> daughter!
>
> You can obtain Census data from the US Census Bureau for a single address
in
> any
> given census under the Freedom of Information Act. You have to know the
> address
> before making the request. Do you know where Gary lived in 1960? If his
> parents
> were still married, it will provide information about them. If not, it
will
> provide information
> about the household he was living in.
>
> School records will also have information on his parents.
>
> I checked listings at yahoo.com and there are 4 Snows listed in Petaluma
and
> 6 in
> San Rafael.
>
> I hope this is helpful.
>
> Happy Trails,
>
> Lauren
> who lives 9 miles south of Petaluma
> and 9 miles north of San Rafael
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