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From: "Phil Moody" <>
Subject: Re: The Queen Mother ---- Requiescat In Pace
Date: Wed, 17 Apr 2002 15:47:09 -0500
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"Todd A. Farmerie" wrote:

> > PLM: I can tell you from personal experience, you nor anyone else here
can
> > control his behavior, in any significant way. I started a crusade to
bring
> > him line once, and all I got for my trouble was a private invitation
from
> > one of the "co-list owners" to leave if I did not like the situation.
>
>
> Oh, be fair, will you. You got a public explanation of why,
> because of the way that things are configured, nothing could be
> done to stop him, that your "crusade" would only continue to
> disrupt the group, and that the experience of people here longer
> than you had proven that the only effective options are to ignore
> him (actively or passively) or to leave. You persisted (big
> surprise) and insisted that the listowners were not fulfilling
> their responsibilities, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
> At that point, I told you again privately how to avoid having
> to participate in a list run by such incompetent people. Well,
> the structural defecits still exist, your crusading is again
> disrupting the list, and the option to leave if you don't like
> the group still stands.

PLM: It is quite obvious who is disrupting the list now, Todd. Your e-mail
here was completely unnecessary, as mine served it's purpose; which was to
get Ms. Lane to stop stirring the embers of discord, when Hines was not even
bothering her. Unlike your egotistical performance above, I did not think it
was relevant to give a synopsis of the whole sordid affair; when most of us
have already read the posts the first time around, and they are preserved in
the archives for those who have not. In the above e-mail, you distinctly
remind me of my wife, who is overly fond of dredging up the past, every time
we have an argument; so get over it, Todd.
I did not mention any names above, because you did not make your
invitation to me to leave public, and I surmise that is due to the fact that
you did not want your crude and callous behavior made public. You had
already expressed your loathing of my behavior publicly, and before I had a
chance to respond, you sent an even more hateful e-mail privately, which was
a serious miscalculation on your part. By hiding your true thoughts and
feelings of me from the public, which the thread had been until that point;
you exposed yourself as being deceitful and two faced, publicly hiding
behind a facade of self-righteousness.
I have more respect for Mr. Hines, because at least he has the honesty
and courage to say what's on his mind openly, rather than hide his true
character from the purview of others, like you, Todd. I get on amicably with
everyone here, with the exception of you, because frankly; I find your
obsessive compulsion to dominate and control an unmoderated list very
abrasive. Until you tone down your overbearing attitude, I don't think there
will be any harmony between us.
I didn't accept your invitation to leave the first time, and I'm not
about to now; so deal with it. I would rather stay and be a thorn in your
side, than give you the delusion of thinking you ran me off; so if you don't
like the situation your creating, you know what the options are.

plm


----- Original Message -----
From: "Todd A. Farmerie" <>
To: <>
Sent: Tuesday, April 16, 2002 2:03 PM
Subject: Re: The Queen Mother ---- Requiescat In Pace




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