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From: "Leo van de Pas" <>
Subject: Re: Evidence re. the identity of Alan Fitz Roland'as first wife, _____ de Lacy
Date: Thu, 29 Sep 2005 08:06:14 +1000
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Dear Mike,
I think you see it wrong. We are a group discussing genealogy and if someone
continues to use dishonest tactics this should be condoned for just so long,
then people should speak up to retain _quality_ and reduce quantity. One
simply reply which sticks to the facts is so much more palatable than the
grandstanding and counter questions we most of the time are getting.
Stick to the facts!!!

When one person keeps on getting away with dishonest behaviour and no-one,
except a few, speak up that encourages that person in his behaviour. If for
a short period people would make it obvious that we expect answers, not
avoiding issues for the sake of arguing, this could stop and we could return
to genealogy instead of stroking egos. I still believe that _by remaining
silent you give approval of behaviour_
Leo



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Sent: Thursday, September 29, 2005 7:48 AM
Subject: Re: Evidence re. the identity of Alan Fitz Roland'as first wife,
_____ de Lacy


> Ed You don't have to apologize for anything. They are grown men let
> them hash it out. No matter what kind of guilt someone is trying to
> place on.
>
> Best
> Mike Welch
>
>


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